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Promotion happened. Happiness didn’t.

Promotion happened. Happiness didn’t.

A new job or title doesn’t automatically fix meaning. Motivation isn’t energy, it’s alignment. Studies of career satisfaction show people whose purpose matches their work report higher engagement and lower burnout (Spreitzer et al., 2012). Skill: List 3 aspects of...
Goals vs Values — the real difference

Goals vs Values — the real difference

Hitting goals feels great — temporarily. But lasting well-being comes from living your values. A meta-analysis found values-guided behavior predicts life satisfaction better than just goal pursuit (Schwartz, 2010). Skill: Draw a 2×2 grid: What I want vs Why I want it....
Walking the Walk

Walking the Walk

Since becoming a therapist in 2012, I have consistently struggled to replicate in my personal life what I preach in my professional life. While we go through lots of training on how to help others and how to recognize our own limitations as therapists, the lessons of...